There is no way around it, traveling is different once you have children!  There is no easy, jump-in-the-car-and-go anymore; you need to plan and prepare to have a successful road trip.  I’ll tell you the secret:

Patience

That’s it.  You must have patience.  This may be a very hard trait to pull from yourself, but I assure you that the absolute only way to enjoy the trip will be with patience on your mind. Repeat after me: This trip is going to take significantly longer than planned, and that is okay.

With traveling picking back up, road trips are topping the summer vacation mode of transportation. Families have been restless and vacations are way overdue!

Whether you are driving alone with your baby or children, or your partner, awesome family member, or best friend is making the trip with you, there are ways to help make the trip a smooth one. (Well, there will be bumps in the road, but it can be fun!)

Road Trip Tips: Traveling with a Baby

Invest in AAA: You do not want to be stranded on the side of the highway without a guaranteed solution. 

Clean out the car:  I mean vacuum it and empty it out completely.  Start with a blank canvas.  Yes, you will need to do this again when you get home, but starting your trip with a clean car will just make you feel lighter and happier.

Trust your child’s car seat: Check the installation, making sure the latches or belts are being used properly. Your child should be rear-facing for as long as the car seat manual states is safe. Babies, toddlers, and kids grow overnight, so make sure that the car seat straps are at the appropriate level: below the shoulders if rear-facing and just above if forward-facing. The chest clip needs to be across the chest, NOT near the belly button. Straps should be tight enough so that you cannot pinch them at all.

Make sure to fill out the safety card under (or on the side of) the car seat. There is a sticker or card that asks for your child’s information. In case of a crash, rescuers will know your child’s name, age, etc.  Also, by keeping a “Baby on Board” sign in your window, you are telling rescuers that you are traveling with a child. This is important because there is a possibility of the car seat being ejected from the car.  (Again, please check the installation.)

Map Your Trip:  Take the time to figure out the estimated drive time.  You know your child - about how long does he go in the car before he wants to nurse, be held, or just need out? When I took a 4-hour trip with my first baby at just 4 weeks postpartum, it took us 6 hours. Between stopping because my heart may have exploded due to newborn crying, her needing to breastfeed every hour or so, and me needing to pee, the trip timeline was thrown out the window. 

Have an idea of where decent hotels are along your trip if you'll be driving more than 6 hours.  Stopping for the night might be your best option, especially if you are the only driver.

Side note: Call ahead and make sure the hotel has a happy hour, or at least a room service that will deliver a glass of wine to your room.  You totally deserve it.

GPS or Other App: You will want to be able to pull off the road for bathrooms, food stops, gas, or just a safe place to get baby out of the car.  Make sure you have a quality GPS app  that will provide trusted information and the fasted route.

Plan for the (UN)Expected:   Wipes are your best friend.  You can clean a mess, clean a baby, clean yourself, wipe the mascara from your crying eyes, etc. Keep them handy. Babies leak through diapers all the time.  Or worse, they blow out their diapers.  There is nothing that will ruin a trip like poop that is not only all over your baby but all over the car seat.  Keep a waterproof car seat pad under baby – or even just a pre-fold diaper. This will help mitigate the mess potential and can be tossed into a ziplock bag (or trash can). Keep changes of clothes for your infant and yourself in ziplock bags nearby. The bags will hold the dirty clothes if a change is needed – and keep any stinks from ruining the trip.

Good Music is Needed:  Radio can get spotty.  Music may be needed to soothe baby – or soothe you! Upbeat, happy, make-you-smile music is your best option!

Pack Well: This goes back to starting with a cleaned out car.  Try to keep the interior of the car as clean as possible so you have room to sit by baby, change a diaper without moving things, and keep the car free of possible accident debris.  Utilize your trunk space the best way you can.  I completely understand that “stuff” is unavoidable as a mom.   

Bring the Favorites: Don’t leave behind your baby’s lovey, favorite binky, or other items that he loves.  

Snacks: Bring food with you.  Pack a small cooler with healthy(ish) snacks that will keep you awake and prevent you from stopping when it’s not needed. Keep a trash bag handy for easy disposal.

Travel around Sleep Times:  If your baby is napping or sleeping regularly, try to plan your drive around those hours.

Do NOT text and drive, type and drive, check social media, or even hold your phone to your ear.  You are carrying the most precious cargo in the world.  NOTHING is worth losing them.   

Have a VERY safe road trip!  Remember that in the scheme of life, this is just a blip on the radar screen.  You can do it – and your family or friends will be SO happy that you did!